She passed the Big Brothers/Big Sisters sign in Bloomington, Ill., “approximately 700 times” on her way to and from work at State Farm^®.

The non-profit was looking for volunteers to serve as mentors to at-risk kids; for people that would help these kids learn lessons and develop skills to help them find success later in life.

“I’d always think of a reason why I couldn’t be a Big Sister,” Julie remembered. “I’d say I was too busy or that I wouldn’t know what to do or I didn’t want to commit to something if I couldn’t give it 100 percent, so I just kept passing by and never calling.”

Everything changed 12 years ago when Julie finally called.

“Figure out what you want to be, and we’ll figure out the rest together.”

Kayanna Jones and Julie Mullenbach meet for the first time.

In 2009, Julie was paired with a 6-year-old girl named Kayanna Jones.

“We both liked sports, we liked being outside and we liked to shop,” said Julie.

Julie remembers being a little nervous as she drove to Kayanna’s house to meet her for the first time. “I remember thinking ‘What if I’m no good at this, what if I let this kid down?’ Then I saw this adorable little girl standing on the side of the road, jumping up and down with excitement, and I just knew everything was going to be OK.”

For the next 12 years, it was more than OK. Kayanna and Julie would get together once every two weeks and as time went on, the two grew closer and closer.

”The first couple of years were mostly about building a relationship. I wanted her to know that she could always count on me, that I’d be there when I said I’d be there and that she could trust me.”

Julie once asked Kayanna what she wanted to be when she grew up. The 10-year-old thought about it for a while and said, “I guess I’d like to work at Burger King.”

“I asked her ‘Is that because you like to cook?’” said Julie. “And she told me that she thought Burger King might be a good job, since she couldn’t go to college.”

The two celebrating another milestone.

When Julie asked why she couldn’t go to college, Kayanna told her “it costs a lot of money.”

“You’re right, it does cost a lot of money,” Julie told her, “but I’ll tell you what: you figure out what you want to be, and we’ll figure out the rest together.”

Figuring it out

The next time they met, Kayanna’s career goals had changed; she now wanted to be a doctor or a lawyer.

With that part figured out, the two began working on a plan to get Kayanna enrolled in college.

“Kayanna has always been a great student,” Julie said, “so we were never concerned about her grades. I always tried to show her just because things are hard, it doesn’t mean they’re impossible.”

An avid volleyball player, Julie would sometimes take Kayanna to her games. Kayanna loved sports and quickly took a liking to volleyball. She showed a lot of promise. When the opportunity arose for her to attend a prestigious volleyball club, the two were extremely excited – even after they saw the $800 price tag.

“We weren’t really discouraged,” Julie said. “We just approached it like everything else; we figured out how we would solve this particular problem.”

Through a combination of hard work, talent and perseverance, Kayanna (pictured on the right) landed a full ride to attend college at the University of Illinois-Chicago.

Julie set up a GoFundMe account and they quickly raised more than $1,000.

Kayanna continued attending volleyball clubs, working the concession stand in exchange for money off of her tuition.

“When all the other girls were going home or going out to celebrate, Kayanna was working,” Julie said. “She knew that if she wanted to reach her goal and get to where she wanted to be, this is what she needed to do, and she never complained.”

All of the hard work paid off. Kayanna was recruited by the University of Illinois-Chicago, and she’ll be attending this fall -- on a full scholarship. “It’s just so incredible,” Julie said. “I am just so unbelievably proud of her.”

Their story was so inspirational, the two were recently recognized as the state of Illinois Big Sister and Little Sister of the Year and were finalists for the national award.

“Kayanna and Julie’s story is really remarkable and inspiring,” said Corey Burrows, Chief Operating Officer of the Central Illinois chapter of BBBS. “Their relationship really personifies what we want our organization to do. When we talk about ‘helping a child reach their potential,’ this is exactly what we mean.”

Watch Julie and Kayanna's story on YouTube to learn more.

For information on how to become a Big Brother or Big Sister, visit https://www.bbbs.org/get-involved/.

When someone hurts you, there are two choices: to hold on to that anger or embrace forgiveness and move forward with your life.

Looking at Bobby Petrocelli, you would never know a drunk driver crashed through his home, killing his wife and changing his life forever. Rather than choosing anger, Bobby chose to move forward with his life and embrace forgiveness.

Bobby didn't blame the driver. Instead, he asked what happened in their life that led them to numb their pain with alcohol.

As a high school teacher and coach, Bobby loves teaching youth. This passion inspired him to take his story to high schools, hoping to make a positive influence on students’ lives. At the schools, he shares his story, and hopes after hearing his experiences students will choose a safer path.

“We have all gone through struggles and have been in that place where it seems there is no way out,” says Josh Miles, senior in Saint Petersburg, Florida who has seen Bobby speak. “The answer is never to give up on ourselves, because we all have value and deserve equal opportunities. At the end of the day, our physical appearance doesn't define who we really are.”

After the crash, Bobby realized life is a constant, never-ending shift between successes and failures. We experience hardship both because of our faults and because of the faults of others.

"The greatest gift in this world is to serve others by helping them become who they are meant to be,” Bobby says about his presentations, that are supported by State Farm. “My desire is each student walks away with understanding and empowering their VIP."

“I try to accept everyone, no matter what,” shared Kevin Jimenez, senior at Hialeah Gardens High. “I believe we are all the same in one way or another. Unfortunately, I know a lot of people that don’t. I’ve been blessed to have a good past. Bobby made me feel better about how I think. I matter and so does everyone else.”

Bobby encourages people to use their life experiences to become stronger, more confident, more resilient individuals. The alternative, he says, is letting those experiences drain all their hope and energy. The choice is theirs. Through raising students’ awareness of this choice, Bobby is making a huge impact on student lives.

“By no means was it easy for Bobby to put someone that killed his wife behind him,” says Aundre Fredericks, ShoreCrest Prep School student. “He understood there's a lot of broken people, but that they need to know, as we all need a reminder, that we matter."

If there is one message Bobby and his students want you to walk away with, it is that even though you can’t choose whether or not bad things will happen in your life, you have complete control of how it affects you from that point on.

To see one of Bobby’s presentations, click here.